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JEM STOPES

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy

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LEARN MORE ABOUT ME

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

After many years working as a conflict mediator and behaviour change specialist I decided to focus my skills with a diploma course at The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology.

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Alongside supervised clinical practice, several years of in-person study have given me a thorough understanding of working with sexual themes in therapy. Meanwhile, my skills and experience as a mediator have created a bed-rock for an effective and focussed relationship therapy practice.

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I am close to completing my required placement hours, and am currently available for low-cost sessions through Your Time to Talk, either online or in-person in Exeter.

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HELP WITH THE IMPORTANT CHALLENGES IN LIFE

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PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

I offer a judgement free space for all genders, sexual orientations, relationship styles, kinks, lifestyles and preferences to overcome challenges they face in their relationships and with sex.

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Whether that's working with sexual shame, sexual function problems such as erectile dysfunction of pain on penetration, or simply wanting to unearth more pleasure and satisfaction from your sexual life. I offer a relaxed and open space to get stuck in.

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Read more here or get in touch for an informal chat about working together.

RELATIONSHIP THERAPY

I work with all kinds of relationships, for people of all genders, sexual orientations, kinks, lifestyles and preferences.

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I work to find the core of the challenges bringing you to therapy, and to turn them into the foundations of the deeper and more nourishing relationship that you are capable of. I work with attachment patterns, conflict management skills, and sexual themes to get you back on a secure footing.

 

Read more here or get in touch for an informal chat about working together.

DIVERSITY AND INCLUSION

I identify as queer and non-binary. My practice is queer friendly, trans-inclusive, and feminist. I'm in an ongoing process of learning about race through reading and study groups. I'm understanding and supportive of sexual diversity, including kink, non-monogamy, queerness, and sex-positivity. I am equally supportive of people's choice to adopt more traditional relationship structures.

In my mediation practice I think carefully about how societal power structures are recreated within relationships. I see acknowledging and balancing the power arising through systems of oppression as a key part of my work.

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"Courage is the most important of all the virtues, because without courage you can't practice any other virtue consistently."

Maya Angelou

GET IN TOUCH

Totnes, UK

+447708797905

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